Read more about marital compatibility or incompatibility, reasons for divorce and measures to prevent it …
Why is divorce so inevitable?
Very often, divorce is perceived by people as the only way to get out of the dead end. As they say, there is no smoke without fire. If they divorced, it means that something did not allow them to exist together anymore.
It is almost impossible to break family ties with one blow, usually the problem begins to mature for a long time. Divorce can be compared to an iceberg in the sea, where only part of the reasons emerge on the surface, and the main part is hidden somewhere deep in the souls of the divorced. Read about the reasons for divorce.
It often happens that the husband and wife constantly experience discontent and resentment towards each other. A kind of snowball accumulates, which then becomes the culmination of the decision to divorce. The main mistake of spouses is that they do not discuss their problem after a quarrel, they simply ignore the conversation, “forget” with the joy of reconciliation. And this is very important: to find out the cause of the quarrels, so that later there will be no repetitions.
Repetitions, alas, do happen, and again they stumble over the same mistakes. Disappointed in each other, the couple begin to divorce. When divorcing, the most popular answer is: "they did not agree with the characters." Let's try to find out if this is actually the case?
What is the formula for marital incompatibility?
It implies the fact that spouses cannot sort out between their feelings in relation to each other and competently start building relationships after quarrels.
The reason for such incompatibility, or "dissimilarity", is most often a lack of culture of relations, unwillingness and inability to be interested in each other. Usually one of the spouses wants to be a leader, and the other does not want to obey him. Happy Compatibility: both spouses take into account each other's opinions, they understand each other perfectly, solve problems constructively and successfully, deal with household issues together, spend rest together, but also give each other the right to personal space.
How to prevent divorce?
"Bridges on the way to a happy coexistence" are often broken by the selfishness of the spouses. And then divorce happens as a result of the couple's inability to overcome their marital crisis.
In my opinion, before you get married or get married, you need to be thoroughly prepared for this. Girls will have to learn how to cook and greet their husbands so that he will be pleased to return home. Guys, on the other hand, must master the profession in order to be able to work and earn money for their future family. They should be prepared for the fact that after the happy "honeymoons of enjoying each other" they may be faced with household and financial problems. Well, this is life and it is inevitable. To avoid divorce, they must adapt as much as possible to each other's characters and not be so selfish.
Read about common mistakes in marriage that can lead to divorce.
