Every girl dreams of being the one and only for someone, to be one that cannot be forgotten. Desire alone will not be enough here. You need to develop pride and confidence to be that mysterious femme fatale who drives men crazy.
How to become a femme fatale?
Then you should be able to literally bewitch the guys, be confident and behave in such a way as not to depend on other people's opinions. You should never doubt your beauty, charm and attractiveness.
All this is possible provided that you change yourself. To be a femme fatale means, first of all, to be able to respect oneself in such a way that it would by no means be self-deception. Ask yourself the question: were there any cases when you could forgive what you do not like at all, but, nevertheless, you justify this forced consent.
Be different from the rest of the girls. Have your own opinion, even if it does not coincide with the opinion of the guy you like. Do not be afraid that he will begin to discuss you with others, and if so, then they paid attention to your desires and discontent. If you agree in everything and forgive the guy's mistakes, then he will understand this and begin to use it.
Be proud, have your opinion, do not constantly compromise and then you will understand what it means to be a femme fatale who can never be hurt without going unpunished.
No, this is by no means revenge and lifelong grievances. This is the usual self-respect, and nothing more. This does not mean that men will have to fulfill any of your whims. At the very least, they should at least listen to your opinion and not ignore it.
The next point in becoming a "femme fatale" will be getting rid of complexes about your appearance. Remember that you are special, people like you no longer exist in the world. Every woman has her own attraction. Look at yourself: maybe you have beautiful hair? Then you do not need to cut them, chasing fashionable haircuts. Maybe you have a beautiful eye color, then accentuate it with makeup. It should be your highlight that makes you special. And then you won't think about your shortcomings. Because of this, women often begin to be afraid to flirt and show their best, because they are afraid of being ridiculed by men. Being a beauty is, first of all, the ability to work on yourself. Watch your nails, they don't have to be long nails, the most important thing is that they should look well-groomed. The same goes for hair. They should be clean and also well-groomed, beautifully styled. Don't forget the heels. A woman in heels, as a rule, has a beautiful flying gait.
Men can quickly notice this, they will begin to pay attention to you. But here, too, you need to make an effort to present yourself correctly. Remember that if you want to subdue and seduce someone, then do not rush to him with open arms. Such a man will have to understand that he needs to work hard to win your attention.
On the one hand, you should be flirtatious and flirt a little, but on the other, you should not listen with great interest to everything that the guy has to say. This may give him the impression that he is a genius and you are a silly thing. But you shouldn't humiliate his dignity either.
A man does not need to tell the whole story about himself. To be fatal, you must remain a mystery to him. Remember that they are strictly forbidden to talk about your complexes, thereby causing pity to themselves. Fatal women need no pity. They cannot be offended. In fact, this may not be the case, but men should not guess about it. However, they immediately recognize excessive pretense.
As for your emotions in public, then forget about a public showdown and hysteria. The main thing here is to learn communication tactics: to be not too arrogant and bitchy, but also not to remain in the shadow of others.
In fact, being a femme fatale is not that difficult. And no matter that all men are interested in sexuality, appearance and mystery, the important thing is that you should treat yourself like a queen, so that others will seek your attention and treat you the same way.
