An article on how to marry a man, even if he doesn't want to. How to do it competently, so as not to miss and not lose it. Every woman, meeting with a man, dreams that everything will end with a wedding. And it is so inherent in the minds of men that they experience great fear in the decision to start a family. It has always been the case that for women, the stamp in the passport plays an important role in family life, while men never considered it an important part of a relationship. But can a girl force a man to marry - to take such an important step? It is difficult to force, but it is possible to direct on the true path.
If you have decided to use your trick and postpone the wedding, then remember that men do not like direct hints of marriage, this can further alienate your loved one. In this case, you will work with the beliefs of your man and most likely it will take a lot of time, maybe a couple of months, or maybe years, but the end always justifies the means. Use these tips, perhaps they will help you fulfill your main dream.
Six steps to conquer a man
- Find out his attitude towards marriage. As already mentioned, men are very afraid of marriage, and for you the main task at this stage is to find out how he generally relates to the wedding, what is the creation of a family for him and whether he has any plans to marry someday. This can be done with leading questions after watching a movie where the relationship ended in marriage, or discussing a friend's wedding. Ask him what he thinks about it, how to relate to the fact that people decide to take such an important step, etc. The most important thing is not to be intrusive, not to ask too many questions about this.
- Hover over the arguments. If at the previous stage you found out that your chosen one is in no hurry to get married, does not think that marriage will change his life for the better, in this case you will need to try hard to convince him. Your main task is to give him more proof that after starting a family you will become even more happy. How to do it? Films with a beautiful ending, where everything ended with a wedding, will help you, and everyone was only happy about it. Go with your beloved to such films, throw them to him. If your man loves to read, give him a book with a romantic plot, throw articles on the Internet. Try to communicate more with happy married couples, perhaps your loved one, being in such a company, will understand that it is time for him to start a family.
- Make friends with your man's family. It is important not only to have a good relationship with the family of your beloved, but to make an unforgettable impression on them. Your most important ally will be the mother of your beloved. You have to show her that you are the perfect wife for her son. Agree with her in everything, let you like everything that she likes. Just be her friend. After all, everyone knows that a man chooses a wife who is somewhat similar to his mother.
- Become the main support for your man. Let him feel that you really are his half, that he cannot live without you. Support him always and in everything, praise, take care of him. Make pleasant surprises for him and do not limit your man in freedom - trust him.
- Add variety to your life. Be interesting, intriguing, find new hobbies for yourself. It is very important for men when a woman is different. The monotonous life can tire him, and he will forget about the word "wedding" altogether.
- Imagination of family life. Working with the beliefs of a person, in psychology there is such a model of behavior "if only …". That is, in this situation you need to behave in a relationship with a man as if you are already married. If you live together, make sure that a warm and delicious dinner, a clean apartment, a caring and smiling beloved woman always awaits your beloved's home. If this is important to him and he feels cared for, support such conditions, then he will cease to be afraid of a new stage in your relationship and will understand that he will always be with you so well, even when you get married.
As you follow these tips, also know that men don't like it when women talk about marriage as an end in itself. This instills distrust in you. Always watch what you say during a quarrel, because men are very vindictive, and once a bad word said in his direction will not play into your hands.
Dear women, remember that marriage will never solve your problems. Sooner or later, the moment will come when a man "will see", and then nothing will save your relationship. If he easily succumbed to your persuasion for a wedding, this does not mean that in family life your loved one will just as easily fulfill the obligations imposed on him. After all, the most important thing is not to force a man to marry, but to preserve your marriage, which is very rare in our time. Be patient and wait, because if he loves, he will not let go.
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