A woman is disappointed in a man: the psychology of this feeling, how to experience it and what needs to be done in this case. All advice is good only if the man continues to love. If he does not see any attempts to improve the spoiled relationship and stubbornly continues to bend his line, there is no need to “throw beads”. In this case, you should get a divorce.
How to deal with disappointment in a loved one?
Frustration with a loved one leads to stress. Prolonged stressful situations negatively affect health. You should not bring yourself to such a situation in order to regain confidence in herself and her life, a woman should adhere to such quite feasible rules:
- No need to dwell on your problems … You can't fix what happened. You should think about how to get out of such a crisis. It is possible that your behavior has become the cause of disappointment in a loved one. It is necessary to analyze your actions and draw the proper conclusions. Let's say you are pushing your man too much to make a responsible decision, and he is not yet ready to take a responsible step. There is no need to make a universal tragedy out of this, burn with righteous anger, accuse him of indecision. "I was disappointed in you, I thought that you were brave and enterprising, but turned out to be a rogue!" It is unlikely that such a maxim will help solve your family problems, but it will definitely affect the relationship.
- Get rid of bad emotions … There will be many of them in family life. You should not accumulate them in your soul, sooner or later they will flare up with irritation and angry speeches. And these are nerves and a gloomy mood - disappointment in marriage, in your man. Avoid all this will help simple physical exercise in the fresh air, a contrast shower. Creativity distracts from sad thoughts, sets you in a positive mood. It is good if you involve a loved one in the activities. This will surely save you from a negative attitude towards him, even if in some situation he suddenly turned out to be not up to par.
- Don't idealize your loved one … He is the best - the best! But still not Apollo and not even a movie hero. And such as most men around - with their own good character traits and not so much. If you understand that such a person suits you perfectly, then disappointment will never come in life together.
It's important to know! There are no infallible people. All with flaws. Don't lose your head at the dating and kissing stage. If she is not "lost", it is safe to say that you will not have to be disappointed in your chosen one. How to get over disappointment in a man - watch the video:
Disappointed in his neighbors, a person learns life in all its manifestations. If a woman suddenly discovered for herself that a loved one, on whom she had high hopes, deceived her expectations, this is not the end of the world. You should look deeply into your soul, or maybe the roots of such deception lie in it? And then it's still not too late to fix it. If the rejection of the once so beloved has gone far, one should not complex, but terminate the relationship with him. There is no other way.