How to avoid quarrels in the family - sooner or later practically every single person thinks about this. How to get rid of conflicts, as well as their main causes, will be discussed in this article. As you can see, it is quite easy to avoid a quarrel in most cases. You just need to be willing to do it. But no one has yet been able to fully live life without conflicts. Therefore, it is also important to know how to behave in this case.
How to quarrel correctly in a family
The inability to behave correctly during a conflict is so widespread that making quarrels in the family endless and grandiose has become a "good" tradition for many.
However, there are some simple tips that will help you quickly extinguish a conflict that has arisen:
- You can not get personal … If you start to offend your partner's personality, then this can not only add fuel to the fire, but also lead the conflict in a completely different direction, adding new ones to the existing problem.
- Can't be blamed for physical disabilities (imaginary or real) … Especially those that have arisen for reasons beyond human control. After all, a partner is probably already suffering from this, and getting a "blow on a sore spot" from a person he trusts is tantamount to betrayal.
- Parents are taboo … During the showdown, you should not compare your partner with your relatives, his parents with your own, insult his loved ones. For most of us, they are sacred, inviolable.
- Do not endure quarrels in public … In no case should you involve your parents and your other half in resolving conflicts. It is also not advisable to tell everything to girlfriends and friends. After all, sometimes it is impossible to follow the words, and the likelihood that then the same will be told to the partner is very high. This will not only provoke another quarrel, but also leave a deep trauma in the soul.
- Children cannot be connected … They love equally to their parents and cannot voluntarily take the side of their mother or father (except in exceptional cases). In addition, due to their very small life experience, children will not be able to help find a way out of a controversial situation for adults. But quarrels bring them a lot of injuries. In the future, all this will be reflected in adult life, to the point that there will be great difficulties with trust in the opposite sex.
- You can't fight in public … Family disputes should remain within the family. Ill-wishers will definitely try to benefit from the public scandal.
- You should not put strangers as an example, and even more so your "former" … It is not for nothing that the partners chose each other, and not their neighbors. Each has its own shortcomings, moreover, often invisible in public.
- In no case should you weave unsuccessful sex into a quarrel.… This thing is very intimate for both partners, and failures, especially for men, are extremely painful.
- No need to raise your voice and shout … This will not help to prove that you are right, and emotions will only be heated up.
- Don't mention spiritual secrets … It is strictly forbidden to blackmail a soul mate with her personal secrets and secrets, especially if they were revealed voluntarily.
Compliance with these simple rules will not allow an ordinary quarrel to develop into a scandal or enmity, leading partners to divorce and the division of property and children. How to avoid quarrels in the family - watch the video:
The problem of family quarrels is present to one degree or another in every couple. This has not yet been avoided. However, understanding the causes of their occurrence will help to reduce the number of scandals to "no". And even if the quarrel still could not be prevented, the correct behavior and taboos on certain actions during the showdown will allow not only to quickly deal with the problem, but also to prevent its development with catastrophic consequences for the family.
